We all have free will. It is our choices that bring forth our outcomes, lessons, and ultimately our growth. We will be presented the same lessons over and over, lifetime after lifetime until we finally learn them, however, our choices to learn and grow through in each of these instances are actually ours to make, and we learn and grow through all of them.
Does “Destiny” Then Exist?
There are indeed certain circumstances, and especially certain meetings with others, that ARE predestined, such as the circumstances you are born with, or encounter as a result of your environment during your formative years. These circumstances and situations exist for your growth, and have either been dictated by things that need balance from previous lifetimes, or careful planning with your higher self before being born to give you the circumstances needed for certain growth.
Other instances have to do with the other souls we are with, or our soul groups, as well as other soul connections we are meant to meet along our life journey who we have either accumulated past karma with that needs to be balanced, or agreed to help each other with some type of soul growth in this incarnation.
We are drawn to our soul connections in life when our paths cross, even if initially, we do not seem to even like each other. That feeling or “pull” from our souls will be felt by both from the time of meeting. It may seem to us that are paths were crossed by accident, through a choice of a new job, or other activity, but is the “pull” beyond here and now that brings us together, and in these cases, we will be “drawn” to certain things that will cause our paths to cross.
Often times, these connections in our lives will bring turbulent times. I mean, let’s face it, the times when we have often grown the most have also been the times when we have experienced the most emotional pain through those special soul relationships. Other times, though, these connections may have a happier purpose together, such as bringing another soul into the world together, or creating a massive project together in order to help others. Regardless, these special soul connections are planned.
Our “destiny” or our “outcomes” ultimately are created through our choices, and the free will we have been given to make those choices. Regardless of the choices we make, we grow through those choices, so in effect, there really are no wrong choices, just different degrees of learning.
